Therapists
for Couples
and Families

Find the right online courses,
assessment tools, and books

DR. KILMANN’S RECOMMENDATIONS

To help you choose which particular courses, assessments, and books will be most relevant to your specialized needs and/or the needs of your clients, Dr. Ralph Kilmann has prepared his recommendations especially to suit your primary or preferred occupational identity—which he summarizes in the following way:

Dysfunctional families of origin set in motion numerous personal conflicts, life challenges, and intimacy struggles that grown adults experience years later, which then fosters a new generation of dysfunctional families—and “the beat goes on.” To break this vicious cycle, therapists can help their clients work through their recurring patterns and personal conflicts, thus seeding new generations of healthy families and satisfying relationships.

Recommended Online Courses

Expanding Consciousness in Organizations

00.
Expanding
Consciousness

Learn how your four foundational inner conflicts can be addressed with five different conflict modes, so all your human consciousness can be brought into the workplace.

BASIC Training for the Thomas-Kilmann Instrument (TKI)

1.
BASIC Training in
Conflict Management

Learn how to interpret your own TKI Profile (as well as other individual profiles) and then learn to improve your conflict-handling behavior.

GTCM for the Thomas-Kilmann Instrument (TKI)

2.
GROUP Training in
Conflict Management

Learn how to interpret the more intricate Group TKI Profiles, so all groups can learn how to resolve their most challenging conflicts.

ATCM for the Thomas-Kilmann Instrument

3.
ADVANCED Training in
Conflict Management

Learn how to use the TKI assessment and other tools for resolving an organization’s most complex problems and conflicts in a fast-paced world.

Culture Management for Organizations

4.
Culture
Management

Learn how to identify the most dysfunctional cultural norms and then replace them with healthier behavioral norms, thereby closing culture-gaps.

Critical Thinking Skills for Organizations

5.
Critical
Thinking Skills

Learn how to surface and then revise your false assumptions, so your decisions and actions will be based on today’s reality, not yesterday’s fantasy.

Team Management Skills Training

6.
Team
Management

Learn how to identify and then close team-gaps, so all groups will be able to resolve their most complex problems and conflicts in the workplace.

The Thomas-Kilmann Instrument Package of Courses

11.
The TKI Package

If you would like to take our 3 TKI-based courses in conflict resolution, you can purchase The TKI Package at a discount. Then, for 6 months, you’ll have access to all 12 hours of course videos, 3 course manuals (222 pages), and 2 TKI assessments. This package is a great choice for trainers, consultants, coaches, mediators, therapists, and peacebuilders who wish to gain mastery of the TKI assessment for applications with individuals, couples, groups, organizations, institutions, and nations. To earn our esteemed “Certification for the Thomas-Kilmann Instrument,” you must pass three Final Exams: (1) BASIC Training, (2) GROUP Training, and (3) ADVANCED Training in Conflict Management.

Recommended Assessment Tools

Thomas-Kilmann Instrument (TKI)

One TKI Assessment
Per Person

The TKI allows you to discover whether you might be overusing or underusing one or more of five conflict-handling modes (collaborating, competing, compromising, accommodating, and avoiding), so you can improve how you manage conflict in the future.

Icon TKI Team Report

The TKI Team Report for
All Kinds of Groups

After completing the TKI assessment, every team member will receive a personalized report that uncovers the particular OBSTACLES to effective conflict management along with several recommended REMEDIES for improving their team’s performance and member satisfaction.

Personality L

Personality Style
Instrument

This instrument assesses a person’s preferences for collecting information and making decisions, as based on the personality dimensions that were originally developed by C. G. Jung: ST, NT, SF, and NF types or styles for approaching problems and conflicts.

Recommended Book

The Courageous Mosaic for Expanding Consciousness

The Courageous Mosaic

This book examines how to expand the self-aware consciousness of individuals by encouraging them to actively participate in mind/body/spirit modalities. That expanded consciousness must then be infused into all our organizations, institutions, and nations.

Still not sure which resource is right for you?

Our team would be happy to assist you.